How to Celebrate your First Valentine’s Day as an Engaged Couple

Celebrating your first Valentine's Day as an engaged couple is an extra special occasion because it not only marks the beginning of a new chapter in your relationship, but it may also be your only Valentine’s Day as an engaged couple depending on the length of your engagement. It’s a time to reflect on the love and commitment you have for each other and to celebrate the plans you have for your future together. That makes it extra special and worthy of taking things up a notch to make it particularly memorable.

Here are a few ways to make this once-in-a-lifetime Valentines Day a super romantic reminder of the love and excitement that brought you together.

Recreate your First Date

Recreating your first date for Valentine's Day can be a romantic and nostalgic way to celebrate the holiday. Consider sharing any inside jokes or memories from the first date to bring back the feeling of that special night. If you're not able to go to the same location, you can try to recreate the atmosphere of your first date at home or by establishing a new tradition based on the experience.

Take a Dance Class

Taking a dance class on Valentine's Day can be a fun and unique way to celebrate your love for each other. You’ll learn new dance moves that have you physically connected while you hold each other close.  Dancing builds trust and intimacy as partners have to rely on each other to lead and follow the dance.  

I often recommend dance lessons to my clients throughout their engagement as a way to stay connected and grounded in their relationship while working through the stress that may come with wedding planning. You can look for a local dance studio that offers classes specifically for couples, such as ballroom, salsa or tango.  Add in a glass of wine and you’ll have the perfect atmosphere for an emotional and sensual Valentine’s Day.

Take a Walk on the Beach or a Pretty Promenade

Taking a walk with your fiance on Valentine's Day can be a romantic and intimate experience. Find a beach or local townsquare, or a pretty promenade then take your sweetie hand-in-hand and enjoy the time strolling together and enjoy the fresh air.  The conversation and bonding without distractions will give you time to connect and nurture your relationship.

Relax with a Couples Massage

Surprise your sweetie with a couples massage so you can relax and bond with your partner on Valentine's Day.  It will give you both the chance to de-stress, unwind, and reconnect. During a couples massage, both partners will receive a massage simultaneously in the same room, allowing for a relaxing and intimate experience. It's a perfect way to show your partner that you care about their well-being and to spend some quality time together.

Cook a Romantic Dinner or Hire a Personal Chef 

Cooking a romantic dinner together for Valentine's Day can be a great way to show your partner how much you care. It can be a fun and intimate experience to plan and prepare a meal together. 

Hiring a personal chef for Valentine's Day can also be an excellent option, as it allows you to enjoy a delicious meal without having to worry about the stress and mess of cooking. A personal chef can create a personalized menu for you and your partner, and can also help to create a romantic ambiance in your home. 

Whether you choose to cook the dinner yourself or hire a personal chef, a romantic dinner can be a great way to spend quality time with your partner and make lasting memories.

Spluge on an Overnight Getaway 

Planning an overnight getaway for Valentine's Day can be a great way to spend quality time with your fiancé and celebrate your new engagement. It can be a great way to escape the daily routine and enjoy each other's company in a new and exciting place. Consider planning a romantic getaway to a nearby city, a cozy cabin in the woods, or a luxurious spa retreat. Whatever your preference, planning an overnight getaway can be a wonderful way to celebrate Valentine's Day and show your partner how much you care.

Ultimately, the most important thing is to celebrate your love and commitment to each other in a way that feels special and meaningful to you both.  Make sure that no matter what you choose you snap a picture so you can look back on the Valentines Day you spent together as an engaged couple.

Eastman Events loves giving our couples a memory that they will never forget, a wedding that will be so uniquely designed for them.  Connect with us to learn more about planning your wedding in New Jersey and throughout the Northeast.